THE RHYTHM
SIX QUESTIONS,
EVERY WEEK.
The plan is not what produces change. The weekly return to it is. A plan reviewed once a quarter is a document; a plan reviewed weekly is a practice.
The six questions
- What did I commit to?
- What actually happened?
- What moved the outcome forward?
- What got in the way?
- What needs to change?
- What is the next commitment?
Fifteen minutes, written, same slot each week. Written matters — thinking about your week produces a generous summary, while writing it down produces a record you can compare against the previous one.
Question two is the whole thing
The gap between question one and question two is the only real measurement in the process.
Most people, left alone, skip straight from what they intended to what they will do next, and never sit in the space between. That space is where the useful information is: whether the commitment was wrong, whether the week was unusual, or whether you are avoiding something.
Three weeks of the same gap is not a discipline problem. It is a signal that the commitment does not fit your actual life, and the answer is to change the commitment rather than to try harder.
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What this is not for
It is not a performance review of your character. It is not a place to catalogue your failings, and a review that ends in self-criticism has stopped being useful — it produces avoidance, which means next week there is no review at all.
The register to aim for is the one a good operator uses on a project that slipped: what happened, what caused it, what changes. No drama, no penance.
Perfect compliance is not the goal either. Hitting every commitment every week for a quarter usually means the commitments were too small to matter.
The monthly and quarterly layers
The weekly review asks whether you did the thing. The longer cycles ask whether it is still the right thing.
- Monthly. Does the plan still fit the circumstances? Should anything be dropped, resized or reordered?
- Quarterly. Re-rate the twelve areas. Compare against last quarter. Choose the next obstacle.
Without the longer cycles it is possible to execute diligently for months on something that stopped mattering in week three.
Frequently asked
Questions people actually ask
What if I miss a week?
Do the next one. The failure mode is not a missed week — it is treating a missed week as proof the system does not work and abandoning it entirely.
Should I do the review with someone?
It is more durable with someone, because the honesty holds better when it is spoken out loud to a person who remembers what you said last time.
How long should it take?
Around fifteen minutes. If it is taking an hour, you are either planning inside the review or writing an essay about your feelings.
What if the answer to question two is 'nothing'?
Write that. A week of nothing is data, and two in a row means the plan, the capacity or the commitment needs to change.
Does this replace my business meeting rhythm?
No. This is the owner's review of the owner's commitments. Team rhythms are a separate structure.
Make your next move
A year from now, what will you be glad you started today?
You don't need another promise that everything will be easy. You need something useful to learn — and a next step you're willing to take.